I have another deep realization from the last realization. I used to say that the more easier that I am able to point out a person behavior, the more likely that behavior also happened within myself. It is so cruel and true that I am hardly to accept people too direct towards me because I am the one always direct to people. I am hardly to believe that I can't even accept people to treat me the way that I always treated others, oh no~~~. How can I expect people accept my behavior as I hardly to accept people's behavior same as myself? One of my gf said the general process of growing will be accept it, suffer it and enjoy it. I had that kind of process few times in the past few years. Now i know that, there is no such thing of complete or ended process of growing as long as I am still alive.
I am learning to adjust myself to learn the way to deliver message that people can easily accept it. I hope myself can realize the mentor meant to me at this point of my life so that I can learn from him/her.
Each of the realization of myself in my life time empower me towards a wonderful life. ^^
1 comment:
Nobody is perfect and we have a long way to go.
When you point out about people, maybe you do not understand them enough or you saw some weakness in the person you care.
When people point out about you, maybe too they do not understand you enough or they saw some weakness in the one they care.
Accepting weakness is nothing wrong, I love you.
Post a Comment