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我的感言

今天在facebook看到这个文章。。。有感而发。。故事是：-

從前有兩隻小豬，整天過著無憂無慮的生活，他們互相相愛著。每天主人送來吃的時候，公豬總是先讓母豬吃 ,等她吃飽了再上去吃母豬吃剩下的東西，每天晚上公豬總是給母豬放哨，他生怕主人乘他們熟睡時把母豬拉出去宰了。
日子一天天的過去，母豬日漸長胖，而公豬則一天天瘦下去。有一天，公豬突然聽見主人在跟屠夫商量，要把長勢見長的母豬殺了給賣掉，公豬傷心至極。
於是從那天開始公豬性情大變，每當主人送吃來時公豬總搶上去把東西吃的一乾二淨，每天吃後便躺下大睡，並且告訴母豬現在換做她來放哨，如果他發現她沒放哨的話就再也不理她。
漸漸的日子一天天過去，母豬覺得公豬越來越不在乎她，母豬失望了，而公豬還是若無其事的過著安樂日子．
很快一個月過去了，主人帶著屠夫來到豬圈，他發現一個月前肥肥壯壯的母豬瘦的沒剩下多少肉，而公豬則長的油光發亮．這時的公豬拼命的奔跑，想引起主人的注意，表明他是頭健康的豬。
終於，屠夫把公豬拖出豬圈的那一刻，公豬朝著母豬笑著說：『以後別吃這麼多！』母豬傷心欲絕，拼命的沖出去，但圈門被主人關上了，擱著柵欄，母豬看著閃著淚光的公豬。
那晚，母豬望著主人一家開心的吃著豬肉，母豬傷心的躺倒在以前公豬每天睡的地方，突然她發現牆上有行字：『如果愛無法用言語來表達，我願意用生命來證明』！母豬看到這行字肝腸寸斷，人類聽到這個淒美的愛情故事也無不為之動容，女孩們為了紀念這段愛情，同時也表示沒忘記公豬臨前的遺囑『以後別吃這麼多』，開始流行減肥 …… ^^

我的感言：-
有时候不是不懂得珍惜，而是对方没有给自己机会去珍惜。因为这个故事的公猪根本没有给母猪机会去了解他所做的付出。如果我是这个母猪，我觉得公猪好自私哦，不让我去和他一起分担，他为我牺牲了，留我在这里孤单的承受那份内疚，好不公平哦。难道把立场调转的话，我也去这样为你牺牲，你又会有什么心情呢？。。。也许我心里会呐喊着，请不要帮我做决定。如果事物一人一半，轮流放哨，在有限的生命去互相扶持，体谅，和爱。是否无论结果谁先走，都有个美好甜蜜的回忆留给我心爱的人，去支持他，扶持他，继续在这世界去过剩下的日子呀~~~~

诚实的分享

昨天和朋友去到''Da Ma Cai",他看到桌子上有人遗漏了钱在桌上，他说不是他的说不管他。我看到人来人往就马上向前把钱拾起来，有几百块马币(~~RM200+).我要看谁去找，然后还给他，在等待的心情又焦急了，如果没人来呢？怎么办？不久，有个马来人刚买完马票回到哪个桌子，好像找些什么，回过头问我有看到吗？我就马上把钱给他了。事后发觉我其实应该问对方多少钱的，可是我朋友却说没关系拉又不是我的，还问我有向对方解释为什么我拿了那个钱。我觉得没有必要。那个人很感激地道谢走了。
今天我在电话里和哥哥分享呢。他说有许多人真的可以很厚脸皮去承认不属于他的钱，我是应该问的。他说如果真的没有人来认领，就可以把钱捐出去啊。 我听了觉得好高兴哦。所以，如果以后我拾到没有人认领的钱就把它捐给孤儿院或有需要的人。也可以帮掉钱的人积福哦。。。。。祝福大家

06 Nov 2008 - thought

A wonderful quote i had learnt from Haridas.........

"You borrow money you don't have,

You buy things you don't need

You impress people you don't like,"

I had a wonderful reading session yesterday. It's really amazing. I am grateful that heaven let me have a group of friends to have some sharing. I have a lot of thinking after the session or even during the session itself.

At first, my friend Ru Ping let me to listen a song. A great song, the meaing of that is a message from up (heaven) to ask me to wait....Ru Ping shared to me a lot. She said sometimes we have to surrender our life and accept it then only you will feel the amazing of life. Heaven always give the things to us more that we couldn't imagine.--------i don't really understand the surrender part but i have realized something. Yes, all the while i kept asking heaven 'why' ,thousand of time, why i had put the efforts so long and years but still not get some great things. But the very moment now, somehow rather i can feel the message that all those things happened around me. I am enjoying to accept it. And believe the time will come......

In the reading session, we had discussed a lot, shared a lot. A few truth story....

1. Real story happened in China, A father and his daugther chating through internet, but they don't know the real relationship. The 12 yrs old gal just said she was about 30+yr-old and working as teacher. They were chating about 1 and a half year, and they decide to married , however at the day they met just realized it is a father and daugther.........T.T how emptiness in nowadays people's heart to search for 'love' from outside in order to fulfill the emptiness part of the heart?
2. A gal chat with a man through internet, after 1 year fall in love...but somehow one day this man said he has some trouble or hospitalization and ask the gal to bank in money........T.T i believe there is such thing happened in this world. There are some people using this method to earn income....?They use the weakness of the heart of people .....
3. Nowadays, some guys buy 'big car' just because to attract gals. Yes, you may finally achieve the goal. But, does the gal really love you 'what you are' or love the 'thing' you have? At the end of the day, does 'he' really impress the person he like ? ....it really make me think a lot
4. Nowadays, a lot of people have masturbation and it has been categorized as harmless and necessary. In fact.....somehow rather it is harm to the terms of psychology.....

The book we are reading is called "The art of remaking men" from Paul Campbell. We had read a few pharagraphs yesterday. There are some lines make me think a lot......

• Our basic selfishnesses are for sex, security and success. To some degree these demands hold each other in check.
• When change comes to the will, the need for the stimulation goes, and purpose and meaning come to life.
• The core of a man's life, the essential "me" that is the spring of all his actions, is his will.
• The "will" has a number of satellites: love, lust,hate,pride,greed,ambition,the fear of what people think.

i agreed with Tia that the "fear of what people think" is the biggest problem. All the while I kept asking 'why' , why i have those 'lust'? Why i have to becom 'the person' they like me to be? How many years....most of the time in the relationship I will try to 'become' the person he like me 'to be',on diet to make myself look great. Initially, I learn handycraft such as knitting sweater,make chinese knots, paper clay,paper cane,cooking.....All these have been categorized 'a great soul mate/wife', considered as 'happinese' to the men who having this kind of gals. When i knit a handphone cover, people asked "wow, who is the lucky guy?so happinese".....................all these make me think a lot..

But now....no matter what i do, i really do it and enjoy the knitting for 'myself'. I don't think that the handphone cover itself will make the guy or relationship to be happinese. Happinese itself is compromised with a lot of things that i couldn't imagine, it is beyond of just doing a 'handycraft' itself. I am happy 'what i am', I appreciate 'what i have', all in the sudden i have realized and understand those things happened in the past. '' Each " brings me messages, brings me to grow , brings me to learn, brings me to aware.

The 'lust' I have to be seem dim because I have found 'myself'. The message I get from the book .....We have to find something within our own selves instead of keep asking from outside such ask 'love', 'lust', 'greed' , 'power' & etc. It will never ended and feel emptiness in the heart. One day...a preson told me that "I love what you are now, you have changed become a woman, spare time do knitting and not addicted to online game, working time do working, etc".................In fact, I don't even bother what you like me to be, it is not so important to me. All the things i do now just because i really enjoy it myself indeed......

Ru Ping said she has spent 4 yrs to find herself....and Tia said "Oh, my dear, it is just a starting...." In fact, in my heart i really agreed with Tia, no matther how much i realized now, no matter how much i have learnt now, no matter how much i have learnt 10 yrs later, i will still feel it is just a starting. How amazing of life to explore...i really love it...

"The more you learnt,
The more you realized you know less...."

Oh, today really a lot of thoughts....

• A person stated he will stop smoking because of someone maybe daugther.
• A person stated he will stop smoking because of a gal.
• A person stated he will strive for career because of somebody maybe girlfriend.

..........All those people or most of the people need 'outside' strengths or 'stimulation' to make them change. Violence, drugs,a steady diet of sexual stimulation are an attempt on the part of our life to fill a vacuum in life - a vacuum created by an existence which has lost its meaning and which never demands complete devotion.
I strongly agreed the message i get from Tia and the book....all the stimulations needed will only be elimated when we can find something within ourselves instead keep asking from outside otherwise by the end of the day....demands will never to be completed to fulfill our devotion.

Company Activity - PaintBall at Sungai Buluh

Knitting-Adult Hat

Yarn in 2 color: On Line 164(java) made in croatia

Circular Needle No. 3.5 , 40cm

Method: Cast on 100 stitches

Knitting-Handphone Cover

Material 1: Gedifra Sportlife Wool (purple color) ,Farbe:3097,Partie:0638,made in Italy
Material 2: No. 4 needle

Pattern:
Method:
1) Cast on a multiple of 40 stitches
2) Knit 24 rows, 2 knit 2purl
3) 25th-26th row: 3 knit,4 purl,6 knit,4purl,3knit
4) 27th:*K3,P4,hold three stitches forward, K3, knit 3 from cable, P4,K3 repeat from, * to end
-- about 7.5 cm

Finally done, it is not yet been washed yet.....After washing should be more soft and nicer ....wakakaka~~~~~can start to do my Adult Hat ......lalalla